Why My Blog Isn’t Free

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Every now and then, someone asks me why my blog isn't free to access. It’s a fair question. We’ve grown used to the idea that online content should be free — from news articles to videos, social media posts, and blogs. So when you hit a paywall or are asked to support content financially, it can feel jarring.

But here’s the truth: creating high-quality content takes time, energy, expertise, and resources. And I believe it deserves to be valued accordingly.

Time Isn’t Free

Every blog post I write takes hours — sometimes days — to research, draft, edit, and polish. I’m not just throwing words on a screen; I’m working to craft something meaningful, insightful, and hopefully useful to you. That’s labor. And like any other job, it deserves fair compensation.

Expertise Has Value

Whether I’m sharing lived experience, specialized knowledge, or hard-earned insights, I bring more than just opinions. I bring context, clarity, and often a unique perspective you won’t easily find elsewhere. You wouldn't expect a professional to offer their services for free — the same logic applies here.

“Free” Content Isn’t Really Free

Let’s talk about the myth of “free” content. Sure, a lot of online writing is technically free to read — but often it’s paid for in other ways. Your attention gets sold to advertisers. Your data gets harvested. Or the quality is so low, it costs your time instead.

I didn’t want to rely on ads, popups, or affiliate overload. I wanted a space that respects both the reader and the writer — and that means asking for direct support, rather than selling your clicks to the highest bidder.

Supporting Creators = More Good Work

When you pay for this blog, you’re not just buying access to one article. You’re supporting the continued creation of thoughtful, independent writing. You're helping me keep this space alive, ad-free, and sustainable. You’re choosing to invest in work that you believe in — and I can't tell you how much that means.

The Bottom Line

I believe that writing matters. I believe that creative labor deserves to be compensated. And I believe that readers like you understand the value of investing in work that informs, challenges, or inspires you.

So no, this blog isn’t free. But I hope you’ll find it’s worth the price.

Thank you for reading — and especially, thank you for supporting.

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